“The stressors of this moment in my life are transitioning into adulthood and figuring out who I am. What is my identity? What is the career path that I plan to pursue,” Rouge reflected.
Rouge, a 22-year-old West Philadelphian, sat down with HMP to share their experiences navigating the stressors that come with becoming an independent adult. For them, the transition period is marked by a deep exploration of their intersecting identities as a Black and Indigenous neurodivergent LGBTQ+ Philadelphian, each aspect bringing its own unique challenges and strengths.
Rouge’s story is one of resilience, creativity, and the delicate balance between their professional aspirations, service to the LGBTQ+ community, and artistic passions.
From a young age, the arts have been a constant in Rouge’s life. “I was a theater kid since I was little. I sing, act, draw, do videos, and write” they describe. This early exposure to creative expression influences their path forward.
However, as Rouge steps into adulthood, they find drawn to other pursuits as well. “I have an interest in mental health and public policy.”
The diverse range of their interests requires that they learn the rules of engagement across different professional spaces. “My work in the office requires that I show up as a professional, on time, do things as instructed. In theater things are less structured, freer. I have to figure out how to balance these two sides of myself every day,” they said.
Rouge’s experiences as a neurodivergent LGBTQ+ youth of color led to their passion to create policies and systems that support the services they need. “It is so important to have welcoming spaces for youth that may face rejection at home.”
The journey hasn’t been without its challenges, especially when it comes to mental health. “My lived experience made me aware of these challenges,” they note, referring to the difficulties finding welcoming mental health services.
However, they have found success in working with providers who are attuned to their unique experiences. “I am working with a therapist that understands and supports me completely,” they share, highlighting the importance of culturally competent care.
As an Afro-Indigenous person, they recognize the stigma surrounding mental health in their communities. “There are historical harms that need to be healed to improve trust,” they observe. They believe in the power of community voices to change perceptions and improve access to mental health services.
Rouge is an example of the importance of embracing all aspects of oneself, seeking appropriate support, and working towards a more inclusive society for all.
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