Adopting a Pet, Caring for Myself

When I moved to the Philadelphia area in 2024, I was not planning to adopt a pet. That changed when I kept seeing the same flyer for a 1‑year‑old cat in Mt. Airy, first at a café, then at the co‑op across the street. I saw Jimmy photo and short description stayed with me. After the second sighting, I finally called Brenda’s Cat Rescue’s number.

Up until then, being a pet owner did not feel realistic. My work schedule, limited resources, and past housing situations made it hard to imagine fully caring for an animal. With my new living arrangement, and a clear agreement with my landlord that pets were allowed, something shifted. I felt ready to try. In December 2024, I adopted Jimmy.

black and white catAs a first‑time adult pet owner, I noticed her impact almost immediately. My days started to rearrange themselves around Jimmy: morning feeding, litter box scooping, making sure I could get home in time for dinner, tracking vet appointments. None of these tasks are dramatic on their own, but together they created a steady rhythm I had not realized I was missing.

Caring for Jimmy has made me more organized in small but real ways: keeping better lists, planning errands, thinking ahead a week instead of a day. There is also a quiet sense of accountability. No matter how my day goes, she is waiting for me, and I have to show up. That responsibility feels less like a burden and more like an anchor.

The emotional shift has been just as noticeable. Jimmy, now 2, is healthy, energetic, and very affectionate on her own terms. She follows me from room to room, naps nearby when I work, and greets me at the door. The apartment feels less like a place I pass through and more like a home I share.

What has surprised me most is how much this everyday caretaking has fed back into how I feel about myself: more capable, more grounded, and more connected to my space, my routines, and this small creature who relies on me and keeps me company.

by Victoria Krauss, Grant Writing Coordinator at PMHCC, Inc.

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