Stuck on Repeat: Understanding Trauma Bonds
When people talk about feeling “stuck” in a relationship they know is hurting them, they are often describing what many now call a trauma bond. What is a trauma bond? A trauma bond is an intense attachment in a relationship where there are cycles of harm and then repair. Instead of getting better over time, the relationship becomes a loop of conflict, apologies, and promises that rarely last. It can feel like being stuck on repeat: fighting, crying, saying sorry, promising it will change, and then ending up right back [...]
