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Cutting, burning, scratching, hitting, or biting oneself is often called \u201cself-harm.\u201d Self-harm refers to the deliberate act of causing physical harm to oneself. It is typically done to cope with emotional pain, distress, or overwhelming feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, a teenager feels very upset after an argument with their mom because they got a bad school report \u2013 or because they are dating and their families do not approve.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Feelings of distress can be very overwhelming. Then the teen might experience the urge to cut to calm down. <\/span>Some teens say that \u201cseeing the blood come out\u201d calms them. Others say that hurting themselves helps them understand why they are so upset<\/span><\/a>. Some teens get so used to self-harm to cope with negative emotions that they store the tools they need and regularly use the same tool.<\/span><\/p>\n

Self-harm is not an effective way of dealing with distress.<\/span><\/p>\n

Most people who hurt themselves feel lonely and defeated afterward. Self-harm can become a very painful circle: argument, feelings of distress, self-harm, feeling shame.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many researchers and doctors have tried to understand self-harm. What we know is that <\/span>many people who hurt themselves have been hurt before<\/span><\/a>. Self-harm is linked to childhood trauma, abuse, family conflict, and negative experiences with peers. Most people who self-harm can recover from it, but many need help from professionals to learn better ways to cope and to help their families understand what\u2019s happening.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Self-harm can be a sign of underlying mental health issues that require professional attention and support. For example, self-harm can be related to depression, low self-esteem, and feeling unloved and misunderstood. People who get help feel better and learn how to manage their emotions and conflicts in a way that leaves them feeling empowered.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you or a loved one are struggling with self-harm, go to the \u201cGET HELP NOW\u201d page and chat with a caring professional for free. In Healthy Minds Philly you can access a free Live Chat. If you or a loved one are experiencing a mental health or a suicidal crisis, call 988. When you call 988, you will be connected with a warm, trained professional who is there to help you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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